Sunday, October 25, 2009

An eyeopener..

Following a week of total inability to DEAL...put one foot in front of the other, feel anything but loss and heartbreak, RAGE and ANGER. I give you this. One of my lovely friends at OHIH posted this and it really speaks. I mean speaks, so here it is. This is from Rose Kennedy.

"It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind protecting it's sanity covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone."

This says it all. Without airing alot of dirty laundry, this week brought to the foreground some really UGLY, HURTFUL, things that happened a long time ago, but will FOREVER scar those involved.

In closing this post, remember that when you think those the closest to you are HONEST, and TRUSTWORTHY, just be careful.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

8 Random Things About Me....

I have been "tagged", so bear with me as I play along. Following this post I will list the people I have tagged....

1. I may be 46 years old, BUT I still love the flavors blue raspberry, and cotton candy. This due to the fact that as kids we were not allowed such treats.

2. I LOVE HOT WEATHER....the hotter the better!! Now granted, I may not handle it as well as I used to, but as long as there is a pool close by I am a happy little camper.

3. I HATE HATE HATE SNOW, SLEET, CLOD WEATHER IN GENERAL. There is not one thing about the winter season that appeals to me.

4. Yes, I am OCD. I realize as I get older, this gets worse, I just need to learn to use this LOL disorder in a more positive way. You should see my closets. I am an organization, NEAT FREAK.

5. When it comes to food I will try anything once. Either in eating it or cooking it. My love/ passion for cooking I think comes from my early childhood memories of my grandmother always cooking, baking, canning something. Oh, and the fact that my grandmas hands always smelled like onions or garlic. Now after I cook and have the leftover "smell" I say oooh I have grandma hands.

6. I hate my hair...the color, the style, the length, problem is I don't know if I want to cut it all off and start over, or let it grow. At any rate right now it's just a curly MESS!

7. My first brand new car was a 1985 FORD MUSTANG GT 5.0, 5 speed. That was the start of a long trail of history, and me finding out I had a need for speed, and enjoyed the feel of pure horsepower. Something BOTH of my children have also inherited. Sorry kiddos..... = )

8. My favorite TV is anything reality based. Survivor, Big Brother, Dancing with the Stars.

Now that you know a little more about me won't you play along? I am tagging, bella, Ami, won, barefootRhys, Jill, and ErinLutz.

http://whereveryougobella.blogspot.com, http://amisanecdotes.blogspot.com, http://brokenwon.blogspot.com, http://liajoy.blogspot.com, http://the-holcombs.blogspot.com, http://quadruplelutz.blogspot.com. There you have it.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Coming Soon to a blog near you....

Writer's block I guess, or just plain boring! I am working on a new post though...

Stay tuned............................................

Monday, October 5, 2009

And the WINNER is......

Bella.......you win!!!!! Winner, winner chicken dinner! Shoot me an email with your address and I will get your prize out to you ASAP!!

A big THANK YOU to all of you who participated.

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Another Taste of Heaven.......on earth



These two pictures today are in Lake Havasu, let me just say that this was a beautiful city. While we were there we saw the actual London Bridge, that was bought and reassembled here in the U.S., went through alot of little specialty shops. One of my favorites was the Havasu Spice Company. We also enjoyed luch outside. If money were not an option, this would have to be a runner up to Mesa.

Enjoy!!!

Friday, October 2, 2009

ARIZONA................remember the song?


Have I said yet that I hate cold weather?! It's not even cold out yet. Memories of this scene last April keep coming back!! You could be in the pool at 7am, of course by 11am it was too hot to be outside. Mind you that is NOT a complaint. If it weren't for my kids and the rest of my BELOVED family we would be SOOOOOOO outta here!!

Thursday, October 1, 2009

SO..HAPPY..IT'S..THURSDAY..RANT

WOO HOO!!! Survivor is on, laptop on my lap, and writing a post. MMMMM is that why they call it a laptop?

So I have a great job, that I just love. Here's the problem, it's only temporary, and that pisses me off. Especially when that point was reinforced today at work. Now mind you, I have been there as a temp since July 29th of this year, for a second time. They requested me back from a stint I did last year for 8 weeks. My whole issue with this is, they told us today that they are getting all of their business back that they had sent to China, because it's cheaper to manufacture it here...BOOOYAA!! Plus they are adding another shift in one of the departments. So I STUPIDLY ask if that meant hiring more people. ANSWER, NO THERE IS A HIRING FREEZE UNTIL ATLEAST NEXT YEAR. So in other words, maybe next year I could look forward to wages higher than what a temp POS makes, yeah how 'bout some insurance, and benefits!! Not to mention that we have been busting our A@#*S trying to make rate, and our projects keep getting harder and harder. Talk about getting the wind taken out of your sails! Then we have to listen to the full time employees BITCH and bellyache about whether or not they are going to get their Christmas bonus. You know what I say to their Christmas bonus!! Come on hubby land that good job a NSA!!!

That's right it's my blog, and I'll rant if I want to!! So deal with it............

Monday, September 28, 2009

A Contest as promised...

Here it is, just as I promised...tada your contest in honor of all of the great friends I have made at OHIH.
It's very simple, with the holidays right around the corner, who couldn't use a little help? Just leave a comment with your favorite thing to prepare for the holidays. It doesn't matter if it's cookies, candy, dessert, main dish you get the picture. The contest will be open until next Monday night, at which time I will pick a winner. Either by choosing my favorite, or random.org. So comment away!
Wait, what are we playing for you ask? The prize package consists of 2 bottles of Victoria Secret lotion, Amber Romance and Sweet Daydream, and a handmade apron. Yes, handmade by yours truely, out of denim and Mary Engelbreit fabric.
So enter away, You have until next Monday night.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Where Am I...and HOW DID I GET HERE!!

I'll just begin this story, in January of 2008. We, (now husband and I) had just moved into this great condo in our hometown. Hubby was working his tail of fixing up, and rennovating this place. The previous tennant had left such a filthy mess, something had to be done. We both were working in the automotive industry, which wasn't looking good at all. The rumor mill was a whirlwind of nonstop talk. There was talk of salary cut backs, and also hourly staff layoffs. He was a salaried engineer, and I an hourly assembly person. With all of this talk going on "J" decided to put in a few calls to the many recruiters he has, in search of a new job, just in case. He landed a job interview in SanAntonio, TX, and was offered a job. This was just WAY TO FAR for me to move from my family. It would have been a 21 hour trip one way. At this point we weren't in dire straights so we were'nt to concerned at this point, about turning down the job offer. Just a short time later, about mid May he gets a call from a company in Illinois, wanting to interview him. J went for the first interview, it went rather well, he came home not having any expectations. A few days later we get a call from this company saying they want to do a second interview, J's response was no problem, but the catch is I have to bring my wife this time. I can't ask her to move half way across the country without her even seeing where we would be living. So here came the first of several trips to the midwest. The interview went great, the company made an offer the following Monday, said they would move us, and help us locate a place to live. Needless to say, we made two, yes two trips ourselves in hopes of finding a place to live. Boy were those trips a waste of time, effort, and money! We seriously though that we were going to have to live in a hotel until we found something. At the last minute we got a phone call from the HR Manager of this company saying that they had found a house for us. We were SO relieved. HA....not knowing the worst was yet to come.

So it's Friday, June 13th, 2008. Yes, that's right, Friday the 13th!! Should have known!! I was done working on the 11th, hubs done on the 12th, we were ready and wainting for the movers to show up. Finally, they show up and get to work. Now you want to see something crazy, watch movers empty a house, and pack it up into a truck in a matter of a few hours!! The movers were gone, with all of our worldly, and not so wordly possesions to a land far off. J and I were going to stay at my parents that night, have breakfast in the morning and head out. As our new place wasn't really going to be in move in condition until then.

Fast forward to early Saturday morning, J went to do a few last minute things at the old place, I stayed at the parents to pack the last of our things in the back of our SUV. My sister beside me, we pack the last of our things in the SUV I'm on my hands and knees, put my left foot down to get out of the SUV, and WHAM, out I go! I land on my back, get up oh so fast, swearing like a sailor (because I do on occasion) at the pain. My sister is laughing, calling me our loving names we have for each other, and I now have this really, really bad feeling. Just then J somes back and wants to know whats going on, same time as my parents. I tell them just a little accident...yeah right. Short version coming....I sent everyone to breakfast while my sister took me to the hospital. I spent the rest of the morning, and early after noon being told my foot was BADLY broken, and there wasn't a thing that they could do until the swelling went down. As luck would have it, I already had a foot specialist, so we set up an appointment for Monday morning at 8:30am.

J had to leave for our new place, and start work on Monday. We said our goodbyes, and he was off. I was just looking forward to having my foot fixed Monday morning. Boy was I mistaken. We see the specialist on Monday. His words, you have 2 choices, I can fix this but you have to commit to staying another 8 to 12 weeks, or you can go on your way find another doctor and have  it fixed there. Either way you are in for the long haul. We left that afternoon, crutches, walker, and wheelchair, and PARENTS in tow for my new home. Five hours later, we arrive in the Valley. Found a WONDERFUL, HOT, (never hurts,pain managment, you know) doctor, foot and ankle specialist to fix the foot. June 29th!!, needless to say I spent the summer cooped up in the house, getting FAT, with 3 NEW screws in my foot. Thanks to my wonderful parents, we got our house in order, and I got taxi'd to my appointments.

Fast forward to January 29, 2009....my husband gets laid of from his job, permanently.
It is now September 27th, 2009, my husband is still looking for a job, I work for a temp service.

That folks is how I got here. Stay tuned for a less long winded post, and a contest coming on Monday!!

Saturday, September 26, 2009

My Children


This is my daughter, "A". She wears her heart on her sleeve, and will do anything for anyone. A second year college student, although first year away from home.

My Children


This is my son "J and his girlfriend "A" . J is a college freshman, wanting to be a Phys-Ed teacher. A kid who is very opinionated, and strong willed. My firstborn.

Let Me Introduce Myself







Here is where I let you meet most of my wonderful, semi-dysfunctional family, and learn a little bit about me.



















This is my husband "J" and I at Palo Dura Canyon in April. The picture on the left above is one of my Mom and Dad.

Just a few quick thoughts...I can't even get a counter added..still feeling cruddy.
It's amazing what a support system has been built over at OHIH!! You girls are AWESOME, everylast one of you!! LOL 4 followers already and I got nuttin' to share til I feel better! Just know you girls ROCK!! Can't wait for my ads to go up. We sure could use it around here. More on that later.

The beginning....

We'll see if I can master the fine art of blogging.